If you’ve recently found yourself back in the
, consider this transition as an
opportunity to re-invest in yourself. It doesn’t
matter what did, or didn’t happen in your last
relationship, what matters now is that you have the
opportunity to correct any shortcomings that are
keeping you from realizing your full potential. Try
working on these three areas to ensure you‘re ready
to attract your ideal mate.
How full is your soul?
When the sex slows down, the body starts to sag and
the money run low, will you have anything else to
offer your mate? Having a strong faith will help you
to weather any and all storms.
How fit is your body?
If you don’t want to look at yourself naked, why
would anyone else? Physical appearances tell us a
lot about the health (and future health) of our
potential significant other. Being in shape allows
candidates know that you aren’t planning on spending
your golden-years bed ridden, unable to move and
expecting them to provide care. If you aren’t in
great shape: hire a trainer, buy a workout DVD or
follow a fit friend. Do whatever it takes to get
into the best shape of your life and stay there;
realizing your dreams is worth any cost.
How sharp is your mind?
One of the best way to learn is to teach, so teach
your significant other how to replicate your
success. If you give your spouse the knowledge of
how to create their dream life, you’ve given them
the keys to the kingdom of heaven and they will
spend the rest of their lives thanking you.
The bottom line is that no one or nothing will ever
make you completely happy. You’re job may
disappoint you, your friends will let you down,
your spouse will one day die, and everything else of
physical nature will expire. Your mate is in your
life to help you grow towards Love, not to bring you
constant bliss and fulfill your every desire; only
God can do that.
Instead of wishing for someone that will “complete
you”, complete yourself and become the person you
would want to marry.
Dating is like building a
home, you need to start with a plan (a vision of
what you want when you are finished), build a strong
foundation (beginning with making yourself someone
you love and are proud of), put together a framework
that is adaptable to change during the courting
period, and then ensure you never forget about the
little details that make the house/relationship the
place you want to spend your life in/with.
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